Maybe YOU are the Problem

I was on my way to go eat today when a car passed me. A woman was driving and a man was in the front seat with his feet on the dashboard, all relaxed. Based on the massive amount of STUFF hanging from the rearview mirror, I'm assuming this was her car. (I don't know any guys that have a bunch of crap hanging in their car!) As she drove past me, I noticed a massive decal across the back of her car that said JERK MAGNET. My first thought is- who the heck advertises that everyone they have dated or been 'involved' with is a jerk?! Which led to several other unrelated thoughts inbetween (thank you, ADD!) that eventually led to this:

If every guy you have EVER dated is a jerk, have you ever considered that maybe the problem isn't them... it's Y-O-U?!

What are YOU doing that is attracting these jerks? Why do YOU continue to go back to the same type of guy? I'm just sayin... If it is the same stinkin' problem everytime, you need to reevaluate and make some changes to make sure you don't continue to invite jerks into your life. And for goodness sake, DON'T ADVERTISE IT ON YOUR CAR! Maybe THAT is why they are all flocking to you!

Side note: I watched Ramona & Beezus with Jadyn today and LOVE, LOVE, LOVED it! I cried, hugged Jadyn a little tighter and had a newfound appreciation for all her little quirks! It can be tough raising an 'outside of the box' child, but it definitely makes life a lot more COLORFUL!